Tina

  I am working on one of my Christmas Presents and I had to talk to some family. My little sister, Tina has cancer. Please do not ask me if I think she is going to die? I think everyone will someday die and no I do not want to talk about it. Please do not ask me what I think about cancer? I think it all sucks! Especially for my sister. Do not ask me if I think she will be able to get rid of the cancer? I pray and I believe that God gave the doctors inspiration and knowledge so that they can help with miracles and healing. I know that God's plan is always better then what we think.
  Just think before you ask a question! If it hurts you then it probably will hurt someone else. If it's hard for you to think about. I bet its even harder for the people who love that person the most. If you think it will help, then do it. If you want people to know you are praying for them, tell them. If you want to do something but you don't know how to, ask!!
I have a friend at my work, Susan who happens to be the chaplin there. At least once a week she always ask me about Tina and her family. She always tells she is praying for Tina and Dwight and their children. That is all she says and but I know she cares and she took the time to know my sister's name and her husband's. I love my sister but please do not ask me how will I feel if she dies anymore! Think about it I will feel the same if I am 95 and she is 92! It does not matter now or ever.